Happy Earth Day!

Today I'll be celebrating mother nature's birthday by having lunch outdoors and reading a book under a tree. It's a little cold to be lingering outside. However, I've been looking forward to disconnecting today and reflecting on some of the greener changes I've made in the past few months and what new things I can start doing know that little peanut is on the way.

If nothing else, join me today in a 10 minute reflection on how we can make our footprint smaller.

Tomorrow I will post the steps I've already taken and what I can improve on. Really hope to hear everyone's earth friendly solutions. :)

Ancient Proverb
We have not inherited the earth from our ancestors, we have only borrowed it from our children.

Mommy-hood "Sacrifices"

I always knew that the day I'd decide to have a child it would change my life forever. I never gave it much thought past that general feeling though.

Mike and I are pretty much still children ourselves. We watch cartoons while eating breakfast, play video games, read comic books, treasure our action figures/stuffed animals and we are just overall lighthearted fun people!

I'm 15 weeks pregnant (yay!) and am already noticing changes or "sacrifices" that will have to be made once our little peanut arrives. I'll clarify that the word sacrifice is in quotation marks because I feel it has a negative connotations since I truly am open and excited about the adjustments I'll be making.

Ever since we became vegan I have taken active interests in volunteer organizations, animal sanctuaries, documentary screenings and other events promoting this healthy compassionate lifestyle. As it happens, most of the events that I want to attend, like Farm Sanctuary's Thansksgiving Feast FOR the Turkeys, NYC 3rd Annual VegFest, and Walk for Farm Animals are all done in October/November at which time I will be busy at home with a precious newborn. Also this year New York Comic Con will be 4 days and of course, held the day after my due date.

There are other events coming up in the midst of my pregnancy, like Veggie Conquest's Veggie Prom, Forks Over Knives Screening, and the most painful one for me to miss-Jack's Mannequin will be performing in Central Park.

Even with all of those events I'll be missing, I have so many wonderful things to look forward to. Soon I'll start feeling my baby swish around in my belly, we'll know if we're having a boy or a girl, I'll be celebrating my first Mother's Day with my mom & grandma, we'll paint our room and start decorating for peanut's arrival and oh yeah, in October we'll be HAVING A BABY!

Yes, a lot of things will be different, both on our social calendars and behind closed doors. But this is something I've always known I wanted.

Some of my single friends look at me like my life is over. My life is just now beginning. I have never been a party girl, I don't care for clubs or happy hour. Being a full time mom is not going to be much of a stretch for me. I've already started making changes, among them taking a serious interest in learning how to cook a variety of healthy, vegan meals. Next on my list is to learn how to knit or crochet. It goes without saying that I have a lot of love to give. Besides, Mike and I will finally have an excuse to be in the toy section for hours without getting weird looks from people!

Also, what better way to enjoy those events next year with our child and show them first hand what living a green, compassionate life is all about. And you know, how fun comic book conventions and cosplaying is. ^_^

Cloth Diapers and Strollers

Now that Hubby & I have finally chosen a crib, we need to start agreeing on other important things for our registry. I hope to begin our official registry after our 12 week sonogram at the end of this month and continuously add things until we know the gender and can finalize the list.

Since we are both so involved in this process and want everything to be as earth friendly as possible, a lot of time goes into researching every single item. To make it somewhat easier, we've decided to tackle on 1 or 2 items a week until we agree on which one we feel is right for our baby.

This week the attention is on cloth diapers and strollers. Since before we knew I was pregnant, we always said that if we had a baby we would use cloth diapers. This conversation came up after watching No Impact Man and neither one of us really gave it much thought after that. Until now of course. I began looking into cloth diapers yesterday, trying not to limit myself to the major baby store chains.

There are so many options! I feel a little overwhelmed because I am not used to the lingo just yet. Hubby is a little hands off with this one. As long as it's an organic material and the inserts (if any) are cloth material as opposed to the disposable ones, he's on board. Right now the ones I seem to understand the most are pocket diapers and am leaning towards G Diapers because they have both cloth inserts and biodegradable disposable refills. Right now I feel that the disposable refills may come in handy for specific situations such as going to the park or for when baby is older and grandma wants to babysit a few hours.

I am definitely not against the extra "work" involved with cloth diapers, which (please someone correct me if I'm wrong) is only going to be doing extra laundry. Cloth diapers are comparable to disposable diapers if not better, they are softer on the skin eliminating diaper rash worries, they help make a happy planet and ultimately save you money!

If anyone is already using cloth diapers or at least speaks their language, I could use all the help I can get! From the most part, the feedback that I'm getting makes sense in that I will have to inevitably try out a few brands and styles before I figure out what works best for my baby.

Notice I haven't even looked at strollers yet! Not sure that we'll even be using one at the beginning. We live in Manhattan so space in our apartment is limited but I definitely want to register for one anyway because we will use it eventually. Even then, I know Daddy-to-be's favorite thing in the world is going to be whatever baby sling we choose. But that's an item we'll look into next week!

Nutritional Stress

I have been vegan for 6 months. Well, it'll be 6 months exactly tomorrow. It was a decision that I made mostly for the health benefits and I've never looked back. In the past 6 months my energy has increased, I've learned how to cook and I am overall more involved with what goes into my belly. My decision to continue on my vegan journey is no longer limited to just the health benefits, but it involves ethical reasons as well. Now that I'm pregnant, I get a lot of extra attention to my choice of eating habits.

There is absolutely no medical proof that I need to eat animal products for the well being for my baby. Everything I need I can get from a vegan diet so long as I eat correctly. Same can be said for non-vegans. Stuffing your face with a double cheeseburger from a fast food joint doesn't mean you are meeting your protein needs for the day.

I have zero intention of changing my lifestyle now just because the majority of society seems to be close minded about the way I choose to eat. I struggle with this when I go to the doctor or every time I tell someone new that I'm pregnant. The only nutritional value that I cannot obtain from a vegan diet is vitamin B-12, which I compensate for in my daily multi-vitamin.

With all of that said, I have never been so aware of everything that I eat as I have been since the moment I found out I was pregnant. The first few weeks I did exceptionally well, eating fresh fruits and veggies every day in between meals. The further I've gone into my pregnancy with the nausea and the discomforts kicking in though, the more I worry about if I'm eating well enough.

Since this pregnancy was a surprise (a good surprise of course) I didn't get to prepare my body for pregnancy. Unfortunately, I am overweight to begin with and I've never been a super active person. I make it a point to walk as much as I can now to ensure that I am not sitting on my butt all day, but I feel that isn't enough. At the same time, I am scared to try jogging or other forms of cardio (which I've done before), since I'm still in my first trimester.

All of this is just stress building up which goes against my trying to stay positive throughout this exceptional journey I'm on. I am somewhat of a perfectionist when I want to be and this is definitely one of those times where I want everything to be perfect. I don't want to do anything that may cause my little peanut to be hurt in any way.

In the mean time, all I can do is try my best. Eat fruits & veggies, take my vitamins daily and walk around the block for 20 minutes. If I can do more than that I will but I shouldn't focus on it too much because it's emotionally draining!

My next prenatal appointment is in exactly 2 weeks and my next sonogram in 3 weeks and 2 days. I will occupy the time til then reading my new book and researching more earth friendly baby products. :)

Our First Registry - Our Dream Crib!

Hubby & I made a huge decision yesterday. We have agreed on a crib! This might not sound like a big deal to most people. I am going to safely assume that most people choose their crib and nursery set from whatever main corporate store they are doing their baby registry at, such as Babies R Us or Buy Buy Baby. However, Mr. Daddy-to-be has made it very clear that this entire process is going to be very untraditional. Just the fact that he has opinions and wants to be a part of everything has me excited (and relieved!). We are eco-conscious in our everyday lives, so it makes sense to make earth friendly decisions with the products we will use for our baby. The moment I realized how toxic some of the cribs from the corporate stores are, the sooner I was able to get on board with Hubby's "bamboo crib" idea.

This was until I saw the prices of said cribs. Bamboo is one the fastest growing plants, making it a renewable source, not to mention that it regenerates on its own. The bamboo cribs we saw online are gorgeous, such as the ones here in New York City from DucDuc with the added benefit that they are made locally. Sadly, we are in no position to purchase or ask for $1,500+ cribs.  My family has been more than supportive and keep telling me not to stress the big ticket items, like the crib, bedding, stroller, car seat, etc. But surely they say this with the average corporate store prices in mind.

That being said, I began researching other earth friendly materials and price-friendly nursery furniture. I took into consideration that our baby will be in our room for the first few months and we don't have space for a crib in there (not yet anyway). I will be breast feeding so I definitely want the baby as close to me as possible for the convenience of late night feedings as well. With everything taken into consideration, I finally found and immediately fell in love with the STOKKE SLEEPI System Crib. Yes, the price is still more than what I would like it to be, but Hubby was right (yet again) when he said that if we start compromising our values for things now, it's going to eventually compromise our entire lifestyle and how we ultimately want to raise our child.

With that said, here are some of the reasons why I LOVE this crib: Bassinet and crib in one without the need to purchase them separately. The bassinet is good until the baby is 6 months old, giving us time to figure out the space issue once we need to convert it to the full size crib. It's made of cultivated beechwood and uses non-toxic finishes, eliminating chemicals and the worry that our baby will be exposed to them. It converts to a toddler bed or even 2 chairs once your child has outgrown the crib which is realistic because it has a 7 year warranty. They expect you to have it until your child is 7 and they actually cover the parts for that long which I think is pretty incredible. On an aesthetic note I love that the crib is oval, which to me simply made it look different and modern. Once I saw the video demo and heard that it's oval because it's imitating the shape of the mother's womb, I was completely sold. I love love love the canopy option, which I definitely plan on using. I think it makes it look so soft and innocent. Really I could go on and on about this crib but really the best part is the fact that Hubby agreed and so I registered for it right away. :)

I am sad however that Baby Earth doesn't have a physical store here in NYC, I would have preferred to have my registry at a single store and I love that they actually have an entire section of their store devoted to eco-friendly baby products. I hope it won't look crazy when people ask me where I'm registered and I end up giving them the names of about 5 stores (I have a funny feeling this is what will end up happening).

I should also mention that I finally purchased my first pregnancy book. Ina May's Guide to Childbirth. After downloading a sample of every conceivable pregnancy book on my NookColor about a month ago when I found out I was expecting, this is the only book that I felt was worth purchasing so that I may read it in its entirety. It was recommended to me by a good friend of mine that I've known since middle school who had 2 natural births and knows first hand what a beautiful and empowering experience natural birth is. I feel like I am slowly fading out of the "I can't believe I'm pregnant" phase and really just embracing this miraculous journey I'm on. I am opening my heart and my mind to all of the positive things that are coming my way thanks to having this little peanut growing inside me.

I intend to cherish every second. Even the times when I have to hold my breath because we are passing by a chocolate shop or the 5 times I get up in the middle of the night to tinkle. These are all my rites of passage into motherhood.

In the mean time, I have begun a piggy bank to save up for our dream crib in the understandable event that no one gets it for us. Donations are always welcome. ;)